Yes Pain, What Gain?

There's some quote that explain that "We must get some pain to have some gain" or something like that. Maybe we have to be a masochist like this one?

Probably, not...

And I too will probably not go to do this. But, this is the real life. This is the life. The life we walked on. The life we keep on hold until now. The life.... that make us feel the pain. But that's not the problem because if nopain, no gain. But the problem is this quote have changed into this :

YOU I PAIN, YOU I GAIN

Is that clear? Many people used other people for their selfish desires. And I can't stand that...

What if you've been used by someone?
What's your reaction?

If that guy is me, I've been already upset. Reaaaaaally upset.

I have some memory of being used, maybe. But I don't know, weather I'm being used or only me who think that I'm being used? It's all come back too you. With what glass you look? If it's with your selfishness, then, it can be wrong. Oh, and maybe this will help you :

THOU CANNOT JUDGE THOU-SELF!

Umm. Maybe like that. You can't judge yourself with your eye and head, but with people eyes. other people will judge you, weather you are good....or bad. Weather you're being used... or using somebody.

This can be changed into some-indescribably-condition if your best friend used you for his or her desires. Or worse, his or her evil desires and you'll get nothing but the bad scene.

Now. I just want to share my memory to you all. Maybe a little. How if you have made a task, a long and it must be done in a few days, and it's canceled in the last day? (Which mean is you have done that hard work)

Don't answer it. Just think it. And maybe I feel like that. And I can't take it anymore...

More question.
How's your feeling when your effort to do something better for someone or some organization with all your heart and your team is end with a word "sorry but it cannot be done because of...bla bla bla....."?

Another question.
When you ask someone who got a high authority in an organization to make a good deed to that organization and want to make an effort as soon as possible, the agreement to do that effort is approved 3 month later with time a month to a deadline and that time you're get too many task. What will you do? Get the agreement or abandon it?

Many.....many...many question....
So many which I want to share...
But I can't talk too much...

And I write English with a poor grammar...
I just hope that I can get my score as high as possible as the One allow me.